I believe in ME, I care for ME
Who deserves your love and affection the most?
The answer is YOU. Nobody apart from you deserve your own love, affection, care and concern; apart from yourself in the entire Universe. Until and unless we value our own respect and our own principles, the world won’t value us. Our self esteem helps us holding our own pride in the society.
On the off chance that no one but you could sense that you are so imperative to the lives of those you meet; how critical you can be to individuals you may never at any point long for. There is something of yourself that you leave at each meeting with someone else.
When you receive the perspective that there is nothing that exists that is not a portion of you, that there is nobody who exists who is not a portion of you, that any judgment you make is self-judgment, that any feedback you level is self-feedback, you will admirably stretch out to yourself a genuine affection that will be the light of the world.
How does self-esteem affect us?
I’ve been thinking about self-esteem lately, and how you can never have too much of it (or so I thought).I was surprised to find that self-esteem isn’t as straight-forward as I’d thought.
Self-esteem gets measured on a scale, but you generally only hear about the extreme ends of the scale: high and low self-esteem. I’d always thought I should be aiming for high self-esteem, but it’s not necessarily all it’s cracked up to be.
It may seem scary or even impossible to change your thoughts but you can change your thought to improve your self-esteem. The automatic thoughts you’ve had for years are familiar and served a purpose at one point in your life. However, think about how many of these are negative and hurtful. The more negative thoughts you have, the lower your self-esteem will be.
Although people with high self-esteem tend to think they’re more successful and happier, objective measurements show that they’re not. High self-esteem has been linked to good job performance, but it’s yet to be proven that it’s actually caused by high self-esteem. It could, in fact, be that good job performance causes high self-esteem.
Regardless of who you are, you’ve likely encountered a self-regard misfortune. When it feels like the world thumps you down, your self-regard can lessen significantly. Whether it’s a separation, breakdown, broken guarantee, sad occasion or vocation challenge, other individuals and circumstances outside of our control do affect our feelings and how we see ourselves.
In any case, the prizes to you, your self-regard and sense of pride are justified, despite all the trouble.
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